Statistics show men in their 20's have atleast had one relationship failed as a result of it being unbalanced
Looking back on your past relationships i reckon that most of you could put your hand up saying that you wanted your relationship to continue whaen it has failed. in understanding what your partner is going through and pin pointing your problem you will be able to have long lasting relationships and at a young age it is important to have sucsesful relationships with girls as it will boost your opertunities in the workforce and your generall social life.
Relationship power
Power in a relationship is very important and must be balanced between the two partners. Many conflicts within a relationship are from control and the power that one has. These conflicts can be seen through verbel abuse and physical abuse.
Abuse within relationships
An abusive relationship dosen't only involve psychical violence but sexual violence and emotional violence.
Signs of an abusive relationship:
Signs of an abusive relationship:
- Controlling partner's behaviour
- Jealousy
- Insults to partner in public or private
- Makes you feel scared
- May threaten violence to partner or loved ones
Balancing the power in a romantic relationship
A relationship is sometimes described as a rolarcoaster, this quite literally is true, especially later on in the relationships.
Usually at the start of a realtionship when the couple first meet there is alot of chemistry and not alot of shouting. This however flips around after a while and soon there can be alot of fighting and relationships break down or one person in the relationship is overpowering the other. This causes a huge imbalance in power and for a relationship to be functioning to the best possibility there needs to be total balance and poth partners should have an eaqual say.
if you as a couple find yourself in a situation like this you should definantly try to get on top of it. there are many ways in which you can sort your problems in a relationship where both partners dont feel as if they are in a blanced relationship.
one way is and i recomend it highly to start with is you simply should just sit down with your partner and talk about how you feel and urge your other half to give a response and say how they feel aswell. after you start doing this and feel comfortable you should regualy do this every night by simply talking about what you did during the day and how you felt about it. this could really help improve your realtionship as you can start understanding how the other feels.
if this dosen't work for you at first i would still recomend persevering with it but if it starts to destroy your relationship even more, the next stage i would suggest would be couples counselling.
i know that may not sound appelaing at first but please keep on reading on because it is perfectly normal to visit counselling and it can be extremely helpfull. http://voices.yahoo.com/research-suggests-marriage-counseling-helpful-5699150.html this website quotes and discusses the positives of marridge/couple conselling. places you may visit can dramatically help your relationship for the positive and make living with your partner more enjoyable and you will be able to understand each other better and help each other with your problems.
even once you have solved your problems it is still good to have a scheduall where you sit down once or twice a week and talk about you week and what each of you is feeling and how you think your relationship is going.
Steps that men should follow to help fix a broken relationship, as seen in the video below:
Usually at the start of a realtionship when the couple first meet there is alot of chemistry and not alot of shouting. This however flips around after a while and soon there can be alot of fighting and relationships break down or one person in the relationship is overpowering the other. This causes a huge imbalance in power and for a relationship to be functioning to the best possibility there needs to be total balance and poth partners should have an eaqual say.
if you as a couple find yourself in a situation like this you should definantly try to get on top of it. there are many ways in which you can sort your problems in a relationship where both partners dont feel as if they are in a blanced relationship.
one way is and i recomend it highly to start with is you simply should just sit down with your partner and talk about how you feel and urge your other half to give a response and say how they feel aswell. after you start doing this and feel comfortable you should regualy do this every night by simply talking about what you did during the day and how you felt about it. this could really help improve your realtionship as you can start understanding how the other feels.
if this dosen't work for you at first i would still recomend persevering with it but if it starts to destroy your relationship even more, the next stage i would suggest would be couples counselling.
i know that may not sound appelaing at first but please keep on reading on because it is perfectly normal to visit counselling and it can be extremely helpfull. http://voices.yahoo.com/research-suggests-marriage-counseling-helpful-5699150.html this website quotes and discusses the positives of marridge/couple conselling. places you may visit can dramatically help your relationship for the positive and make living with your partner more enjoyable and you will be able to understand each other better and help each other with your problems.
even once you have solved your problems it is still good to have a scheduall where you sit down once or twice a week and talk about you week and what each of you is feeling and how you think your relationship is going.
Steps that men should follow to help fix a broken relationship, as seen in the video below:
- Identify the problem
let them know how you feel
don't hide your feelings
pay attention- communication goes both ways
small gifts
small, fun dates
make sure you both understand the issue
pay attention to small things
always remind why you like each other... more explained in the video
the balance of power in a family relationship
Having a good family relationship is seeen by most as the key to a happy and healthy life. these people are the closest group of people you have and you need to be able to support each other to teh best of your ability. as your family being one of the closest relationships you can have if the power is unbalanced it can all break down.
Really the best and only option is to bond and have scheduals were you sit down and talk or have family game night. this can really boost your relationships and get you talking more. talking is really the key, once you are comfortable talking with one another then things will mostly sort out over time as some relationships can be really torn and take along time to heal.
Again you should always keep up a time during the week where you all sit down and do an activity such as card games like 500 and hearts, once you are doing this regually than most of your problems will solve themselves and you will find that you will automatically find it easier to talk and support each other.
Really the best and only option is to bond and have scheduals were you sit down and talk or have family game night. this can really boost your relationships and get you talking more. talking is really the key, once you are comfortable talking with one another then things will mostly sort out over time as some relationships can be really torn and take along time to heal.
Again you should always keep up a time during the week where you all sit down and do an activity such as card games like 500 and hearts, once you are doing this regually than most of your problems will solve themselves and you will find that you will automatically find it easier to talk and support each other.
Generall help with repair
Really the proven and effective way to fixing a broken down relationship is simply to talk and talk alot. points to talk about can be:
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about their day
how do they feell their relationship is
doing activities together
supporting each other when they need help
always being there for them